The Smartphone’s Gotta Go

There’s something about smartphones these days that’s got the whole world in some kind of stupor. Wherever you go today, you can’t help but notice the swarms of people on their phones. Go to the bus stop, and more than half the people in line have their face buried in it. Go to the mall, and the young people are sitting around with their eyes glued to the screen without a thought for the person sitting next to them. People used to look around more. People used to acknowledge the presence of others more. Lately, it’s like, the only way to gain access to the world these “smartphone-people” live in, is to meet them through their phone. I shudder to think what communication between human beings will look like if we don’t start paying attention.

Although many people in Japan still use flip-phones, smartphones have managed to take a big share of the market over here. (Approximately 56.8% of the population as of 2017.) As more and more money is spent on this ever advancing technology, more and more people are raising concerns about the addiction-factor of smartphones and particularly their affect on young people. A recent study done by the University of Southern California found that half of teenagers in the US and Japan admitted to having smartphone addictions. The study found many negative side-effects of smartphone usage, including being a “source of distraction” as well as “conflict and worry.” Many young people today cannot imagine life without a smartphone and spend numerous hours a day with their devices. As a result, statistics are showing that kids in Japan who regularly use their smartphone are getting lower grades in school. I think this Japanese professor evaluates the current situation well:

…Maybe now’s the time to reconsider whether smartphones are really a necessity or not.

What about you? Do you find yourself looking constantly at your smartphone? Parents are certainly not exempt from the addiction-factor of mobile devices. I’m not against technology and it’s understandable that many people now need their phones for work-purposes. But, if you find yourself–like most smartphone users–looking at your phone within 5 minutes of waking up, you could be on a dangerous path to not only addiction but spiritual decline. It’s not easy to be in tune with God’s Word when you have multiple Apps beeping at you for attention. I understand there are plenty of Bible Apps out there to choose from, but why not just go back to the good ol’ fashioned print version of the Bible for your morning routine? Instead of checking your phone when you wake up, wouldn’t that time be better spent basking in the presence of God?

Don’t let your phone take the place of God as number one in your life. We can tell a lot about ourselves by the way we spend our time in a day, so don’t let yourself get trapped unawares.

Homeschooling Using The Noah PlanĀ®


I’ve been looking up various methods of homeschooling for my girls and have been completely overwhelmed with the sheer amount of options out there! Families today are truly blessed to have such a wide array of curriculum to choose from! Continue reading

Why You Should Embrace Your Accent


There’s a sad lie going around in this world that only some accents are worthy of the top. Everything else needs to be hidden, padded down, and cleaned up to sound more “presentable” to the outside world. When I first started learning Japanese, I really, really tried to hide my American accent as much as possible. I wanted to sound like a native so badly, but do you know what?

Native speakers are totally overrated.

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Please Stop Commenting on How White My Kids Are (Japan)


It happened again. Someone saw my face, a white Caucasian mother, and then looked at my kids, half Japanese, half American, and they immediately said, “Oh, they’re so white!” Then they smirked. Then they walked away. Well, the fact of the matter is my kids are not so white that it has to be commented on every. single. time. If these words were sincere, maybe I could stomach it, but 9.9/10 it’s said with bad intentions to create a wall that I just can’t seem to climb over. Continue reading